Monday, January 21, 2008

I'm Back.........

I have been on a blogging hiatus. Being a Family Law Attorney is often stressful. When a marriage is dying, divorcing couples are rarely at their best. Now add in the stressors of the holiday season and things go from bad to worse. The time period from the end of November to the middle of January tends to be a very intense time at my office. This year was no exception.
My staff and I had to prepare for and put on four trials lasting one to two days each. In between the trial preparation, I also participated in fifteen office settlement conferences with opposing counsel and our clients in an effort to peacefully settle Christmas visitation schedules between upset and angry parents, who tend to each want Christmas their way. These conference typically last two to four hours before we are able to reach an agreement. Once an agreement was brokered, I had to draft a Stipulation and Order which had to be signed by both parents, both attorneys, and a Judge. As if all this wasn't enough, domestic violence is always an issue during the holidays and this year I appeared at six emergency hearings seeking restraining orders as a result of domestic violence. Add to the mix all the clients that want to their divorce paperwork filed before the end of the year and new clients who need immediate appointments and you get a scheduling nightmare. Between Thanksgiving and Christmas, seventy hour work weeks are the norm for my staff and me. By the time December 24th arrived, we were all exhausted and looking forward doing to our winter break (I close the office from December 24th through January 2nd each year).

As if this isn't enough, I still have to try to decorate the Christmas tree, purchase and wrap presents, help Kenny with his homework, attend various school plays and band concerts.

I haven't been knitting........

I haven't been blogging.......

I haven't been weaving.......

I haven't been reading........ (except for reading endless declarations and case law).

But now, finally, things have settled back down to a semblance of normal and I can now catch up.

December 17th was the 50th birthday of my sister, Kris. Before the holiday madness began, I knit her a shawl.

I used Royal Bamboo and a lace pattern I particularly like.

I finished the ends with Swarovski crystals.

This is the knit side.....

.....and this is the purl side.

I really like the color of this yarn. Too bad it is a discontinued color. However, I saved enough of the yarn to make a scarf for myself.

Dan, Justin, Kenny and I spent Christmas in Washington. I just downloaded the pictures and will post the highlights tomorrow. In the meantime, I finally cast on a new square for the Great American Aran Afghan.

6 comments:

sophanne said...

Welcome back. I was wondering where you were! You were missed.

Yarnhog said...

Oh, I'm so glad you're back! I was getting worried. Actually, I was more than getting worried--I was starting to plan a search party. I'm glad it wasn't anything more serious than a truly awful work schedule.

That shawl is absolutely gorgeous. It's just as lovely on the back as on the front, and I love the crystals. I hope your sister loves it!

Tina T-P said...

I'm with "yarnhog" - I was just about to launch a search myself. Glad to know it was just a busy schedule! As you can see, you were missed. :-) Looking forward to seeing what you've been working on. T.

Tina T-P said...

P.S. - The shawl is absolutely lovely. I'm sure your sister was pleased. T.

5elementknitr said...

Welcome back! I'm glad you're less stressed now. My SIL works as a paraglegal in a Family Law office and she was telling us the same thing. Whew! You should get a massage.

BTW, tag you're it. Come by my blog to see.

(Yarnhog tagged Romi who tagged me and I'm tagging you!)

Danielle said...

Glad you're back. After stressful times, it is so nice to have things calm down. Sometimes I forget how good things are until things are bad! :( I'm glad your Christmas was good after all that work!